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With
changing times even the institution of marriage
is showing a changing trend.
Indian
marriages particularly face different challenges
as arrange marriage and joint families are quite
common in India, even today.
In
an arranged marriage, two people who are complete
strangers suddenly come together and are supposed
to share most intimate relationship, which is
very difficult, especially for the wife as she
enters totally unknown family with different
traditions, often different lifestyle and she
is supposed to adjust to all that. In such scenario,
Husband needs to understand that he is the bond
between the daughter in law in the house and
rest of the family. Wife needs great support
and understanding from the husband to be able
to cope with the new family.
In
a love marriage, though it is the decision of
the two people in a relationship to spend their
entire lives together, it has its own challenges
like coping with family resistance, different
cultural patterns and changing roles of partners.
Thankfully,
more and more people are aware that, one
has to work proactively towards any relationship
to be happy and strong
It
is essential for couples to understand the innate
differences between men and women, their different
biological and social roles to be able to understand
their partners and be happy and satisfied.
Now
a days we advice more and more youngsters to
get involved in pre marriage counseling to avoid
future frictions and disappointments.
It
is so good to see that more and more couples
are approaching counselors to sort out their
marital issues.
At
Niramay we offer counseling for various stages
in relationship-
Pre- marriage counseling
- for couples who need insight into various
facets of married life and sex education; and
prepare for the challenges faced after marriage.
For individuals who need guidance in selection
of the right partner for them.
For marital disharmony
and disturbed communication -Developing empathetic
understanding between partners, helping them
to communicate and understand each other better
Handling crisis in
marriage; Going through separation
and divorce.
Dr
Meenal regularly arranges lectures / workshops
on-
" You are
not what I expected"
- counseling for couples - strengthening the
relationship through empathy and communication
"Handling
singlehood and divorce"
-counseling for people who spend their lives
without partners due to death, divorce or other
reasons.
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